Virtual Assistants Have an Identity Problem: Answer “What Do You Do” Effectively
As a virtual assistant, I am often asked, “What DO you DO?”
With about 5 seconds to capture the asker’s interest before succumbing to the ‘glazed over-deer-in-the-headlights-look’ with my traditional, boring response, I decided to shake things up a bit…and respond with a question instead.
Now I know this goes against what my mother taught me, “Don’t answer a question with a question” but she’ll forgive me for breaking the rules!
You see, as a virtual assistant…these are two words which do not really mean much at all to folks outside of the coaching, speaker, author or real estate professional industries, which tend to utilize my services more often for administrative and website work.
Explaining to folks what is I do through running off a list of services I offer rarely works either. And, when individuals learn my office is based out of my home that is the trigger that maybe I do not have a ‘real job’.
Even my best elevator speech does not seem to get my point across.
I have an identity problem.
So confusion sets in and I still have not really explained what it is I do for a living.
So when I am asked, “What DO you DO?” I answer instead with, “Have you ever?”
So, Janine, “What is it that you do?”
Have you ever sat down to create a blog using Wordpress and realized you did know how to upload the theme to your website?
Answer: Well, I create blogs for customers who want to promote their services online to a broad audience. I also write blog posts, offer up ideas for those who wish to write their own posts and edit those who send me their posts to upload.
So, Janine, “What is it that you do?”
Have you ever looked at stacks of business cards and wondered who within those cards is waiting for a sales call?
Answer: I can take those cards, update your client database so we can collaborate and send out email messages, ezines and events notices to your clients via autoresponder programs.
So, Janine, “What is it that you do?”
Have you ever written articles and wondered what else could be done with them?
Answer: Well, I can post your articles to varying ezine sites. I can repurpose your articles for blog posts and archive those articles on your website for your visitors to download.
Using Have you ever to explain what a virtual assistant does is so much easier when the services are broken down in small bites. Rather than explain what a VA does, I explain what it is I have done and what I can do for them through examples. Clients see more value in this type of explanation…and no one has, thus far corrected my manners.
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Great explanations! I think I’ll have to try the “have you ever” approach myself.
Hi April,
*Have you ever* examples I listed in the post are geared toward business owners but the same concept applies if the asker is a non-business owner.
If a friend asks, “What DO you DO?” I say, “Have you ever signed up for a store newletter for coupons by giving your email address on an e-commerce website? Well, I set those type of programs up for businesses so when customers like you input your email address you receive those varying emails (confirmation, opt-in, the coupons,newsletters, etc.)”
It works much better than listing a laundry list of items that a virtual assistant does.
Thank you for your comments.
Janine Gregor
wwww.YourVirtualWizard.com
Great post! I have used an approach similar to this one and have received good responses. I am finding that as I attend more and more networking events, people are starting to become more familiar with the term VA. I am extremely excited by this and it relieves some of the pressure in delivering an elevator speech!
Hi Janine!
I absolutely love your approach to answering this question! No longer will I stumble over my explanation, when answering those who have no idea what a VA is, what I do, or what I offer!
Thanks for sharing
You are welcome, Stephanie!
This is a great approach because I can actually see how it works. It is one of those “OOOOOHHHH” moments that people get when they finally understand and can relate to something.
Hi Stephanie,
Thank you for your comments.
You will get the ‘oooohhhh’ moment from whomever you speak to if you answer a question with a question. It also engages the person to further reveal more about their business which makes it much easier for you to tailor your response to the potential clients’ business.
I never say I am a virtual assistant immediately because it means little to most business owners.
Janine